Moving on?

Yeah, today i would like to talk about the art of moving on.

So, i have always been wonder how can someone simply move on from his past?

but after all, i bet it isn't something as simple as ABC 123. it surely tough.

i convey you guys with my own experience about so called move on.

actually, me myself and i are currently moving on from the unwanted past.

of course it's hard you fool. haha. i'm still waiting till the day i manage to master the art of moving on with my own bare hands.

yeah, likewise, my bff used to say, in order to move on, we must first, stop all the communications with the 'things' we want to get rid off. at first i was like what did she means? but after awhile i finally have some answers onto it. so basically, if we want to really get rid of the hurtful past, we need to block it all away as far as we can from ourselves. up from the contact number, social media or even getting bump into it. i hope you guys understand what i'm trying to say. this is for the thing won't have anything left to try and contact you while you're half dead trying to get rid of it.

secondly, we ourselves need to be strong, by means we need to take control of ourselves from contacting it or simply by stalking it. if you do, you might get hurt without you knowing it. to make it easier to understand, when you are like stalking the things you don't want to remember, it will not caused you further happiness but only making you more fond or long to it. and it surely kills you from the inside. so think bout it.

next, try and fill your days with a lot of activities. occupied your time with other things. make yourself busy, buy yourself times to focus more onto your own happiness. i believe, if you are pretty busy with activities, you will eventually forget to think about the past and everything in it. trust me. this tips turn out marvelous for me.

lastly, if you are bold enough, forgive the past. or in another words, let bygones be bygones. it surely hard, but it really works. although i'm quite reluctant onto forgiving some people that caused me a great deal of damages. but trying won't hurt would they?

May Allah SWT ease your paths in mastering the art of moving on. Good Luck !